Apologies (again) for my lateness (again). As a llama in a silly hat once said: “I’m in the wrong here, I suck”
(in case you don’t get the reference, watch the video below)
Anyways moving on, this week I want to hand out a bit of advice on keeping the faith. And by ‘faith’ I don’t mean any religious sort of faith (unless that’s your thing). I mean faith in economy, the job market, and your life in general. Here are three things to tell yourself when life gets a little too real:
- It’s going to be ok. No matter what is happening in your life, try to remain calm and remember that it can always be worse: if you are reading this on a computer screen, remember that there are people out there that don’t have computers or cars or food and are having a worse life than you. If you have a roof over your head, food in you stomach, and the drive to get back into the swing of things, you can and will do it. It’s going to be ok.
- Karma does exist. Good things come to those who wait, and if you hang in there just a little longer, things will look up. Often when things don’t go as smoothly as we’d like them to, our first reaction is to lash out and be angry (I’m guilty of this too). Instead, just keep putting the time and energy in…and wait. You might be surprised what happens with a little time and hope.
- There is no harm in being charming. This might seem a bit odd in this list, but never underestimate the power of flattery. Whether its taking the time to learn what makes your boss tick, studying up the company you’ve always dreamed of working for, or even just holding the door for a flustered businessman, be prepared to have your kindness pay off. Sometimes knowing that your boss loves orchids, or that your favorite company roots for the New York Red Bulls, or even that you just held the door for a former Google executive can come in handy.